Use the stoplight to teach kids how to make decisions.
- STOP and THINK (RED)
- CAUTIOUSLY Consider the Choices (YELLOW)
- GO GOD'S WAY (GREEN)
STOP and THINK—RED
Why is it a good thing to stop and think before making a choice? (Keeps you from just following the crowd, keeps you from reacting wrongly, etc.)
A wise person doesn't just follow the crowd. A wise person doesn't just do what he feels like doing. He stops and thinks before he does things. If we only stopped to think before we said or did anything, we might keep ourselves from saying or doing something wrong.
CAUTION, Consider the Choices—YELLOW
2 questions to ask:
1. Does the Bible say anything about this?
Not all choices are equal. Some are between right and wrong; some are between things that are wise and unwise.
If the Bible has specifically said something is wrong, we should choose NOT to say or do it. But not all choices are between right and wrong. How do you decide when you have a choice between two okay things?
2. What is the WISE thing to do?
GO GOD'S WAY—GREEN
Choosing to GO GOD'S WAY is always best. If something were clearly wrong, then the wisest choice would be to say no or walk away. If something is not wrong and it would be a wise thing to do . . . then do it! We want to be wise and choose daily to follow God's way and rules.
Give the kids some chances to practice making choices using the stoplight.
Some situations: your friends ask you to steal something; a friend wants you to disobey your parents; you want to eat cookies just before dinner; you want to play your video game but have homework, you have an hour of free time, etc.
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